Most people treat time like it’s a wall, something they’re constantly running into.
“We need to change this now.” “This can’t wait.” “If we don’t act by next quarter, we’ll miss the moment.”
I used to be one of those people. I was eager to implement everything I’d learned immediately. New boundaries, better systems, strategic clarity. I wanted to transform my entire approach to work overnight.
But I kept hitting resistance. Not just from others, but from reality itself. People weren’t ready for my new way of operating. Systems that had taken years to develop couldn’t be changed in weeks. Trust that had been eroded needed time to rebuild.
I was treating time like an enemy instead of recognizing what it actually is.
Time is a resource.
Here’s what I tell my sons, and what I wish someone had told me earlier: The future doesn’t need to start next month. It just needs to be moving in the right direction. Plan, yes. Build, yes. But let things breathe.
Some of the best moves take time to ripen. And some shifts aren’t ready until people are. Real change, the kind that lasts, isn’t just about decisions. It’s about belief, buy-in, alignment, and trust. And none of those happen on demand.
When you treat time as a resource, you stop panicking, you stop forcing things, and you start preparing. You know that some people need to see you try before they believe you’re serious. Some ideas need multiple framings before they land. Some teams need to see failure happen before they let go of the old way.
And all of that takes time. Not passive time, but active, intentional time. Time you use, not time you lose.
Further Reading
- #37 If Everything Is Urgent, Then Nothing Is Important (Distinguishing real urgency from manufactured pressure)
- #3 Not Everything Matters (Strategic focus and selective attention management)
- #39 Timing Is Half the Game (Advanced techniques for reading organizational readiness)
- #40 You Don’t Have to Go Fast, But You Do Have to Move (Balancing movement with strategic patience)
- #65 Not Every Idea Needs to Go to the To-Do List (Allowing ideas time to develop before commitment)
- #66 Don’t Let Waiting Freeze Your Progress (Active progress during patience periods)
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